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Big Papa   in reply to Sambrazil   on

About Sambrazil

 in response to Sambrazil...   Fine, thank you, how you doing?
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Big Papa   in reply to BETTYJO   on

BETTYJO

Did that drunk driver have insurance?  If any one ionvolved had insurance you have a case.  My prayer's are with you and your family.  Let me know how things are going and we will think of something.

God Bless,  Big Papa

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Big Papa   in reply to AidpageTeam   on

What is Aidpage... People Helping People

We all feel like we have been short changed by the people who should be helping us, I mean, our politicians at the local, state and federal levels.  I see to many people who need help running into block walls. Once again I hear so many promisies from each party, about how much better they are going to improve my life, but I still can't get into a shelter or residential treatment facility, and must continue to sleep and live in my car.  Thank God I have a car.  I haven't found work in six months, not because I don't want to work, but so many companies have gone oversea's that the job opportunities are small and far apart.  I just recieved an extension on my unemployment benefits, so the kids and I can maybe make it for another four months, but what will we do with the winter sneaking up on us?  I was just wondering, that all my friends who share here on Aidpage are more or less in the same boat as I, some in a much more difficult situation.  We all could use a little help but from where will it come?  I thank God that my health is not bad, but if I lose any more benefits or services I might not be able to do my follow up work.  The kids are healthy and still happy, I think they believe our life right now is an adventure, but they are growing fast and starting to compare themself with the other children in school. Is there any way we all here on Aidpage could send our politicians e-mail's or letters asking them to support changes that will help the people most in need?  Let me know what kind of ideas you all have out there.

God's Peace,  Big Papa

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Big Papa   in reply to Xena   on

About Xena

Let me know what services you have tried.  I am not sure about Arizona law, but in California there are ways to challenge these things. Stay focus I understand it difficult but, we will make one way or another.

I send my blessing's, Big Papa

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Big Papa   in reply to crayolachick1ao   on

About crayolachick1ao

Hey young lady, how ya doing?  Let me know something about you, your family, and where you go to school.

Hear from you soon,  Big Papa

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Big Papa   in reply to anciearies@msn.com   on

About anciearies@msn.com

 in response to anciearies...   

I myself, lost two sons. My youngest son was killed at the age of fourteen, my oldest son was killed at the age of twenty-one.  I have dealt with these emotions and feeling's for eigthteen years and I will tell you at time's they have gotten the better of me.  I do not know what you're beliefs are, and I myself questioned my beliefs for a long time.  It was only through understanding what my beliefs and not my desires were that I was able to strengthen, and grow with my guardian. I had to do the work and at times it was very difficult but, I found that writing my sons letters and telling them exactly how I felt got me through some tough times.  I still write them and I write myself a letter back at what I think they would tell me.

God Bless You and your Loved one's, and if nothing else, you know you have a friend here with Big Papa.

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Big Papa   in reply to Big Papa   on

About Big Papa

 in response to busterljp...   

Wasn't there a great Master who said. "ask and you shall recieve?".  I think there was.

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Big Papa   in reply to Big Papa   on

About Big Papa

I know we all face difficult times and situations, and at times it seems that even prayer to God gets us nowhere. There are many questions and request that never seem to be answered. Why? I could not say. But I do know if I really look deep into my life,  I have many wonderful reason to be grateful.  Let me know what you really have to be grateful for. Take a minute to really think about this.

God's Peace, Big Papa

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Big Papa   in reply to OutnumberedMama   on

About OutnumberedMama

What's going on? How you doing? Let us know.

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Big Papa   in reply to wishes   on

About wishes

Tell us about yourself.

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Big Papa   in reply to Sambrazil   on

About Sambrazil

Where have you gone?

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Big Papa   in reply to anciearies@msn.com   on

About anciearies@msn.com

For a parent, the lost of a child is probably the most difficult experience that they will know. Grief and lost counseling is almost always necessary in order to deal with this painful situation. What programs have you tried to get help from? Let me know how thing's are.

God's Peace, Big Papa

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Big Papa   in reply to desparateseekinghelp   on

About desparateseekinghelp

What state do you live in?  Can he not collect support for his children? This is a very difficult situation, but there just might be a solution. Let me know how things are.

God's Peace, Big Papa

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Big Papa   in reply to STACYANN   on

up date As of NOVEMBER 2009

Girl you have a story to tell! And I think it time for you to start putting it down on paper.  You are an inspiration to every mother out there. You have a great wealth of knowledge and experience.  Exactly what we all need.  How strong is your faith? Get back with me, your friend,

Big Papa

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Big Papa   in reply to LovelyMama2233   on

LovelyMama2233

LovelyMama,

How are you?  How are your studies going. Whatever happens, do not stop going to school!  Let me know how thing's are.

God Bless and Good luck.

Big Papa

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Big Papa   in reply to SysBot   on

Aidpage group discussing "Father"...

 in response to sheshe030...   

You could not have expressed yourself better, my brother! A father that loves his children and not afraid or embarressed to show his love and emotions is truly a man, and is preparing them for the challenges that they will face in this life.

Well spoken! Let hear how you all feel about this most important issue.

Big Papa

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Big Papa   in reply to dawnmarie   on

Dawn's

Hey brother, that is great that you are in school.  What school do you go to and what are your plans when you graduate?  How do you find time for everything? What kind of a relationship do you have with your children? Your ex? Are you in a relationship now?

Hear from you soon.

Big Papa

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Big Papa   in reply to SysBot   on

Aidpage group discussing "Father"...

I would like to put a question out there for anyone who is willing to honestly answer, male or female. What is a good father? Not husband or friend, but what is a true father?

Hear from you all soon.

Big Papa

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Big Papa   in reply to wilby   on

About wilby

I am from California, and the most powerful uinion in the state is the corectional officers union.  Some of these people make over one-hundred thousand dollars a year. How is it where you are at?

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Big Papa   in reply to ablessing   on

About ablessing

Where have you gone?  How are you and is everything good with you and your loved one's?

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